I don't know is not an answer.

Gaslighting is not OK.

Turning it around and saying you're the gaslit one is even less OK.

Hiding behind a privacy policy so that others can't know the truth is not OK.

Moderating anyone who doesn't agree with you is not OK.

Dismissing triggers is not OK

Denying safe space is not OK

There's too much not OK this week.  Too much not OK that's been perpetrated by someone who hides behind a privacy policy, so others can't know.

So not cool.